Archive for November 29th, 2007

29
Nov

Escaping the November blues

   Posted by: admin   in faith

Recently, my wife and I enjoyed a great month, one we’re still in for a couple more days: November.

Now, November is a sore spot for my wife, a month that brings back bad memories for her. Fortunately, Adonai allowed us to get just enough ahead on some key bills, so that we could accomplish two goals we’ve had since we were married over 15 months ago.

First, we went to IKEA and, after passing by a variety of living room arrangements and bathroom vanities and the like, picked out and bought a black wood dining table that can slide out to seat eight or slide in to seat four.

It might seem like a minor thing to some folks, but we’ve been cursed with an old, rickety table all of our marriage until that night. When we finally paid for it and got it home, I’ve never seen my wife so purely happy; she insisted on constructing it herself, and I let her. She did a marvelous job of it, too.

I don’t think it’s materialistic to be happy to finally replace a piece of old, unliked furniture with a brand new piece that makes home feel more … homey. Neither of us got our joy for life out of it, but it was a very satisfying thing to finally reach that goal.

The other goal was not materialistic at all: we finally got to travel to Chicago to visit her relatives there for Thanksgiving holiday. The four-day getaway set us both back about $100 or so, but we’d saved and planned and scrimped and the trip was long overdue and very satisfying for us both. It was good to spend time with Grandma and Uncle John and my wife’s half-sisters/step-sisters, and various other familiar faced we’d spend too little time with over the past two years while we were busy preparing for and settling into our marriage and both of us going through career upheavals.

These bright spots didn’t cure the November blues, but they did provide an oasis of enjoyment in what can sometimes be a bleak month at Casa de Hansen.

For all that, I am thankful this week, Adonai.

29
Nov

Who’s the stubborn ones, again?

   Posted by: admin   in Torah, faith

When a believer is finally convinced in what they believe, it would require a New York moving company to get them to budge on their beliefs. While I find steadfast faith inspiring, such unwillingness to be open to new teaching is what keeps some people from missing out on all that G-d has for them.

For the Jewish people, two thousand years of anti-messianic teaching has created a blind spot for the possibility that Yeshua was indeed the promised messiah. Some have even abandoned the messianic hope altogether, which is a shame. Yet that is relatively minor compared to the error of the Christians.

Mainstream Christianity long ago abandoned the Jewish roots of their faith, and it shows up not only in the big issues, but in the details. They exchanged the true name of Yeshua for the less-Hebraic-sounding Jesus. They exchanged Adonai’s own feasts and festivals, declared and established in the Torah itself, for shame pagan holidays like Easter and Christmas. They celebrate most of their holidays with a feast of ham, rather than a kosher menu that Yeshua himself could have joined them in.

Any Christian who says Jewish people are “too stubborn” to recognize the truth of Adonai and his messiah, Yeshua, needs to take a good long look in the mirror; what they see reflected there could easily be found in Webster’s Dictionary as the very definition of the word “stubborn.”

Believe it.

29
Nov

Missing the kids

   Posted by: admin   in bar and bat mitzvah class

It’s strange.

One of the main reasons I am a bar/bat mitzvah teacher at my congregation is that those who are parents themselves aren’t exactly beating the door down for their turn at bat. In the nine or 10 months I’ve been doing it, even though I’m not a parent, I miss the class and the kids quite a bit on Saturdays I can’t make it, which are thankfully few and far between.

Take this past weekend for example.

I loved being in Chicago with my wife, spending time with her grandmother, her uncle John, and other important people in her life. It was great fun, a nice getaway and long overdue: over two years since we’d been down there ourselves. The whole weekend was memorable in good ways. But I must confess that, come Saturday morning, I missed getting up and going to Sar Shalom to teach “my kids.”

Sure, they can be challenging, hard to deal with at times and a bit of a handful. But they can also be bright and studious and full of joy. I enjoy teaching them. And it beats buying body shop supplies.

Saturday this week can’t arrive quickly enough.