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Relevancy of the Torah

Sunday, February 24th, 2008

Discerning the value of traditional teachings that are not part of scripture is not an easy task. As I write my 47 lessons of Torah, it would be easy to get lost in the traditional teachings of the Sages. However, only a small fraction of what is written has direct relevance to our purpose as a messianic congregation; even that aside, only a small fraction has relevance to issues that would shed light on these Torah lessons for my bar and bat mitzvah kids.

Of course, if anyone thinks it’s easy to teach 10-13-year-olds, I have some North Carolina land for sale. While I greatly enjoy it, it is a challenge to get kids at that age to pay attention enough to learn something, though it can be done.

Relevancy is the trick. So many lessons talk about adult concerns in their examples, rather than kids’ concerns. An illustration of how a certain passage of scripture relates to marriage or paying off a mortgage, for example, isn’t as relevant has an illustration that compares a certain passage to dealing with bullying or peer pressure, or making a choice between Bible study time and videogame time.

Yet even kid-appeal doesn’t guarantee relevancy. In writing my lesson on Genesis, I came across a writing of the sages that expands on the day of creation when all underwater life was brought forth by the words of Adonai our G-d. The passage was filled with stories of G-d creating monsters that could destroy the earth if he’d made more than one of them. Such a story from the sages would have held great youth appeal.

But the truth is, it’s complete legend, never mentioned directly in the passage we were studying and, therefore, problematic at best, if not downright confusing the mythology of Torah from the historical Torah passage itself. Better to leave such a story aside for an older, more discerning age. That was my feeling, anyway.

47 lessons of Torah

Sunday, February 24th, 2008

Picking out Nike golf clubs has to be a lot easier than writing a 47-lesson Torah cycle curriculum for my bar and bat mitzvah kids, and yet that is exactly the task I’ve taken on for the coming year. It will be quite a challenge. Not only must I study up on my Torah well enough to teach it, but I must study up on connections to the Brit haDasha as well as the writings of the Jewish sages, gathering the good from each source and discarding the not-so-good.

So far, I’m producing these lessons quite close to deadline. Uncomfortably close. I’m hoping to find a creative burst that will launch me 2-3 lessons ahead of deadline so I have more time to look at, pray over and consider the writing I am doing before having to finalize it.

Already, the rush has produced a possible oversight on my part. In my enthusiasm over the first two chapters of Genesis, I may have misinterpreted the order of events. My traditional understanding of Genesis is that on the sixth day of creation, Adonai’s work was devoted exclusively to the creation of humankind.

However, it appears the L-rd also created some other mammel life on the sixth day as well, a fact I didn’t catch until the lessons were already printed up. I was disappointed in myself, not because I expect to always be right, so much as I expect better results of myself than that.

Sure, I suppose the point might be open to some debate; but I think a clear reading of the text points out that it was simply an oversight on my part. Fortuantely, it’s a small one, easily corrected. If that’s the worst error I make over the next 46 lessons I must write, I’ll be doing well, I think.

Bar and bat mitzvah, defined

Sunday, January 13th, 2008

First communion invitations are not a concern for messianics, as we do not celebrate such a thing; however, we do celebrate bar and bat mitzvah as our young boys and girls enter their teen years, so there is a parallel invitation need.

Bar mitzvah happens for boys around the time they turn 13; bat mitzvah happens for girls around the time they turn 12. What does this mean? Let’s break it down. Mitzvah is a word that traditionally means “commandment” in both Hebrew and Aramaic, although it can alternatively also be translated as “good deed” or “righteous act,” which are simply shadings of the same root meaning. “Bar” means “son of” in Aramaic and “bat” means “daughter of” in Aramaic. So, in essence, the celebration could be translated either, “son of the commandment,” or, more loosely, “son of righteousness.” Similarly with girls, it would be “daughter of the commandment” or “daughter of righteousness.”

Basically, it is a coming of age celebration, but with a spiritual connotation. From a messianic perspective, it celebrates the age of maturity, when young men and women have studied Torah enough to have their own basic understanding of sin and righteousness, so that they are without excuse. It celebrates the time at which young people must become responsible for their own behavior, choosing what is righteous and pleasing to Adonai over what us unrighteous and sinful.

It is not, as many messianics believe, a full license into adulthood. Children in their teen years are still in need of some direction and assistance in making their way through the challenges of life and becoming prepared for full adult responsibilities; all a bar or bat mitzvah signifies is that no longer can they claim they did not know right from wrong.

Blinds over stained glass?

Monday, September 10th, 2007

It was interesting to review our shul’s bylaws this weekend and be reminded that part of being a member of the church is giving of your time and talent, not just financial support.

As a teacher of the bar and bar mitzvah kids, I’m already doing that to some degree, so that’s a relief, but we have a lot of members and a shortage of volunteers, so it was nice to have a reminder that all of us could probably do a little more than we’re currently doing… even a bar/bat mitzvah teacher like myself.

I don’t think anyone has meant to slip into casual participation; I think it’s human nature. But I’m glad we addressed the issue and encouraged all members to do more. Otherwise we might as well put blinds over our stained glass and close up shop; when a community stops helping each other, it’s headed that way anyway.

Getting active

Monday, January 15th, 2007

Well, now it starts to get serious.

Rabbi Stan met with all of us who want to take the advanced studies courses with an eye on ordination this week, and he made one thing perfectly clear: if we have an eye on ordination, the time to start teaching and working doesn’t begin in the two-or-more-years-down-the-road period. It begins now.

Turn out there’s a lot in Sar Shalom that needs doing that hasn’t necessarily been getting done and folks like me are now the first place they’re gonna be looking. It’s a bit intimidating. Before I’ve even sat through one session with Stan and my fellow Torah students, I will be overseeing next week’s bar/bat mitzvah class. Meaning I’m trying to teach while also attempting to keep a group of energetic 10- to 12-year-old kids in line and on task.

Frankly, I’m worried that after one weekend of that, I’ll be looking into spending time to recover at Orlando villas rather than going after an ordination. But I digress. I’m sure I’ll manage. Fortunately, I’m going to be paired up the first time out with a fellow Torah student. So at least I won’t be alone.